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As I’m sifting through all of these requests for hook ups, I’m noticing some common denominators in the guys that the girls are interested in. It’s not something new for me, the same types of guys have been attracting attention at my parties for years and it has absolutely NOTHING to do with being “smooth operators” or expert game players. These guys seem to be this way whether they know someone is watching or not.
I’m going to spill their secrets… so for those of you men who are actively looking for a quality girl, you may want to start here:
Be helpful. The guys who attracted the attention of multiple women at the party were the ones taking out the trash, helping with clean up/set up, brought food or mingled and made sure that everyone felt included.
Be comfortable. Being comfortable in your own skin is a HUGE attraction to women. If you can pull off being under or over dressed and not make a big deal about it, you actually draw a lot of attention. Women notice when you are rocking the beanie when everyone else looks slightly fidgity in their perfectly ironed button downs.
Be kind. Even if you aren’t interested in the woman you are talking to. Paying attention to her and enjoying the conversation will also attract attention in a good way. Girls notice when you slight their friends and you never know when the girl you are talking to is actually sussing out your potential for her gorgeous friend that you’ve been exchanging glances with all night.
Be brave. If you are interested, seek her out and have a conversation. If you hit it off…ask for the info. And FOLLOW UP on it. Girls really aren’t into the whole wait 3 days thing. If you call the next day, that is completely cool with us. In fact, you get brownie points for it. Don’t turn into stalker boy — she’ll call you back if she’s interested.
Be yourself. Lastly, its not the guys who are dishing out the lines or hamming it up in the center of a crowd who get the most attention. Its the ones who are just being themselves. Talking about what they are interested in and genuinely interacting through out the evening.
I know that some of you are going to argue that you get the most attention when you ignore the girl or have a ton of women surrounding you or even when you use your best lines, and I won’t argue with you. Yes, you’ll get attention. But if you read carefully… I said QUALITY women. If you want quantity… use all of the above plus every line you can think of, but don’t be upset when you find you have a hard time sorting the good from the bad.
